His Galway Girl may leave me as cold as the Irish coast, but I still like Ed Sheeran. He seems like a lovely chap, who’s worked his way up, and genuinely cares about music. And so it is a shame that he has been bullied so badly on social media. It makes my heart break – almost as if it were the string on a budget guitar.
Headlines were made yesterday as Sheeran confessed that he had “come off Twitter completely”, as online abuse had become too much for him. In spite of his 19million followers, the star was hurt by the endless cruelty that has become all too commonplace on the site. It’s a depressing state of affairs when anyone who dares to put themselves in the spotlight – even with the best of intentions and the least of malice – may find themselves pelted with verbal stones.
Some might say that Sheeran is weak to remove himself from the site, but I can understand why. It can be jolly difficult to stay in such a hostile environment.
This is something journalists are particularly aware of – albeit on a lesser scale – as we get attacked time and time again for opening our mouths. The Twittersphere fuels a level of moral outrage that can feel overwhelming to those at the centre of it.
Indeed, when I first started writing, I remember thinking everyone would find my opinions brilliant (which they are, of course). That’s until I got called “wet wipe” and “Hitler” after one of my pieces (which did not, for the sake of clarification, involve any neo-Nazi sentiments). At night I looked into the mirror, wondering: “Am I really Hitler?” and: “Is wet wipe a legitimate insult?” I’m still none the wiser.
The strange thing about being trolled is it’s like having a beer. After a while you get used to the taste, and you can even take more of it (although it’s always a bit bitter). Not least because online trolls are bloody strange people – science has proven it. A study out this week even suggests that they’re mostly psychopaths and sadists, with lower levels of empathy than your average human being. Who knew!
Trolls also seem incredibly needy, and tend to pipe down when metaphorically stroked by a Twitter like or a reply. Often insulting people is simply a way of saying: “Notice me!”
Still, the level of abuse Sheeran has faced is unfathomable compared to most people, and beyond what any reasonable person could be expected to take. This is why so many A-listers have ducked out of Twitter, including Miley Cyrus, Sue Perkins, Stephen Fry, Halsey and Joss Whedon. Most of whom actually have incredibly tough skin. This seems a great shame, not least because – in Sheeran’s case – the positive tweets directed towards him do actually outweigh the cruel ones. The problem is that it’s always easier to pay attention to the latter group.
In the future I expect Twitter will become much more regulated. It is already being tidied up through various buttons designed to inhibit trolls, namely the “Block” and “Mute” functions. And perhaps this is not such a bad thing. What we have learnt as technology evolves is that humans aren’t so quick to do the same. In fact, the internet has only fuelled a huge regression in the way in which people treat others.
One can only hope that Sheeran’s Twitter hiatus does not last for ever; whether he realises it or not, the trolls care far more about his music than they’d ever like to admit. – The Independent